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Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Hari InI...

hari nie aku bangun kena marah..
pasal laptop lembap cam siput...
xpasal2 kan..

kul 7 aku main game..
game masak2...

kul 9...
went to bathroom n take a bath...

kul 9.30..
pakai baju kbaya baru....
hahahhha

kul 10.00
went to the town...
finding some reference books for my study...
bought labuci...
bought pisang goreng yg lembik mcm makanan bayi daa...
bought some auk for lunch...

kul 12.00
reached home..
continued with cooking game..hoho

kul 2.00
online..
checkhed any forms of comments in my fs, ms, fb, tagged dll..

kul5.00
ribut taufan melanda kampungku......
offline.....

kul 7.00
game lg..

kul8.00
baru sdh mandi...
nak solat r nie...
update mailbox my daddy dulu..hehehehe

kul 9.00
dinner kowt...
agaknya la...

kul 10/11...
titow kowt..hikhikhik...

p/s: hajat malam nie nak balut reference books tue..
n nak study sket2....

Monday, July 27, 2009

SeMaLaM dAn HaRi iNi....

semalam..
semua pelajar sila ke Dewan Bendahara untuk pemeriksaan H1N1...
wow...surprise...

kul 2.30,aku n yg lain2 pown p la..
sesape yg berkenaan iaitu yg ada sakit,
diberi keutamaan utk pemeriksaan...
selepas check2 tue sume..
aku sakit biase aje..
syukur Alhamdulillah...

mlm td..
nak kul 12 malam gitula...
perhatian kpd sume pelajar,
kampus kita telah dikuarantinkan untuk virus influenza A..
semua yg ada dlm institut xboleh keluar...
sila berkumpul di Dewan Bendahara pd pukul 8.30 pg untuk taklimat...

ari nie...
start la kelas dgn bi..
pastu p dewan...
tungu punya tunggu..
9 lbih baru pengarah institut berucap...

yay..yay...yay..
cutie...
semua warga institut diarahkan meningalkan kawasan institut pd hari ini
dan diminta pulang kembali ke institut pada 2 hb ogos,ari ahad...
seminggu seyh cutie...
balik r..
ape ag...hohoho

Friday, July 24, 2009

9 GrEaT QUeStIoNs AnSwErEd!!!!!...

1- in public toilet, is it better to use a paper towel or an electric hand dryer??
go for the hot air..
the energy needed to heat n blow air at your hands is far less than the energy needed to make transport paper towels n haul waste away..
one US study found dat nine fully grown trees are cut down to supply an average fast-food restaurant with paper towels over the year;
the tossed towel then create over 450 kilograms of landfill waste..
the hand dryer also more hygienic..
doctors at university of ottawa claim the hot air gets into more crevices in the skin,
killing off germs quicker...

2- should i do dirty dishes by hand or use a dishwasher??
this one's not crystal clear,since it all depends on
how u hand wash and on the model of dishwasher...
according to Tanya Ha, the author of Greeniology,
old-style washing,
using one sink for washing and another for rinsing,
consumes 16-20 litres of water..
"however, the amount increases considerably if you rinse dishes
under running tap water instead of using a filled sink or bucket."
Research by the British government's Market Transformation Programme last year
found that dishwahers get items cleaner and use about 75 per cent less water..
the key is having a modern model..
dishwashers built today use around 95 per cent less energy
than those built 30 years ago, says Ha.
Older models can use up to 90 litres of water a load;
modern two-drawer dishwashers use as little as nine litres..
to be even greener, stick to full loads and use the no-heat or air-dry option..

3- should i do my laundry in a front-leader or top-loading washing mashine??
front-loaders win,hands down..
top-loaders have faster cycles but they use much more water, energy, n detergent..
when u are buying a new machine,
look for the labels listing its energy and water ratings..
also choose a machine size that suits your household..
even if u're not planning on buying a new machine,
u can still make your current washer more friendly..
clean the filter, use the minimum amount of detergent,
stick to cold water and stick with full loads..

4- what should i eat for dinner tonight??
out of everything u do,
what u choose to eat has the biggest impact on the environment,
says Rebecca Blackburn, author of
Green Is Good: Smart Ways to Live Well and Help the Planet..
"Farming uses more resources than any other industry..
it also produces one fifth of our greenhouse gas emissions.."
in fact, one third of the average person's carbon footprint
is due to their intake of animal-based food,
which is far more than the impact of driving a car
of the energy used in our homes..
so should we turn vegetarian???
Blackburn says u'll surprised at how much u can help the environment
simply by reducing your red-meat intake even slightly..
in fact, eating three kilograms less red-meat each year is
equivalent to reducing household water use by half!!
Blackburn's handy tip: go for Meatless Monday...

5- is it correct that flicking fluoro lights on and off uses more energy??
actually no.. new data suggests frequent switching
doesn't shorten the life span of bulbs or waste energy..
compact fluorescent bulbs are basically energy-efficient versions of
the strip lighting we used to put in bathrooms..
manufacturer Osram is now selling a bulb that
it claims can be switched 500,000 times
- equivalent to 91 times per day over its 15-year life..

6- when it comes to grocery shopping, should i do a big shop
each month or fortnight, or should i shop every few days??
around the world, billions of dollars worth of food gets thrown out each year..
the United Nations Food Programme reports that
just five per cent of leftovers in the US alone
can feed four million people in Africa..
"it's not just money that's being wasted,
it's the resources that went into making the food," says Blackburn..
"Do an audit of the fridge before u go shopping and
figure out what's left behind,
what went off and why u didn't eat the food."
so by all means do a big monthly shop of durables and non-perishables,
but buy your fresh fruit and vegetables every couple of days
so they don't sit in the crisper unused..

7- are the new hybrid cars that much better than small, fuel-efficient, conventional cars??
hybrid cars are not the be-all and end-all..
"choose the smallest car that u can manage and
choose the most fuel-efficient car in the range," says Blackburn..
"u can make a big difference without buying a hybrid," she adds..
"if money's an issue, you'd be far better off spending the extra money on
a rain-water tank, solar hot water, insulation and
energy-efficient appliances."

8- what's best: curtains or venetian blinds??
when it comes to keeping your house insulated,
curtains win hands down..
Venetian blinds don't reduce heat transfer at all:
a close-fitting, lined, floor-length curtain with a pelmet
will reduce heat loss in winter by one third..
to keep the radiant heat out in summer,
install outdoor shutters, awnings or miniature louvres..
window films provide some protection from the sun
but are less effective than external blinds,
and they also don't protect against heat loss when it's cold..

9- when it comes to baby, what's best: disposable nappies or cloth nappies??
lets call this a draw..
several independent studies
- taking into account all the environmental factors
such as raw materials and energy usage,
emissions of air and water pollution,
and even waste management
- conclude that both have roughly the same environmental effect...
but the dollar cost is another equation..

WoRlD Of BlUe...

i really like blue colour...
i dont know y..hahaa
almost all of my things would be in blue colour..
my pail, my pillow, my clothes, my mirror, my heater, my iron......
my brooch, my almost everythings..
hahahahha
what a ridiculous.....
in what i do,
the first thing i must find it in blue colour...
hahahahah
for example...
the pictures below...



da colour bring me tranquility...

people said dat person dat love blue colour are loyal to their pairs..
i hope so,,,hoho...


person with blue colour also must suit themselves with red colour...

blue n red..
a good combination i think...




KeNaLi LeLaKi hIpOkRiT....

1- pentingkan diri-sendiri : tdk langsung mengendahkan situasi dan keadaan kamu..

2- mendesak : ikut kehendak dan keinginan dirinya termasuklah perkara yg xmasuk akal tanpa mempedulikan perasaan kamu..

3- meminta-minta : menjadikan kamu sbg lombong emasnya..

4- mengungkit : seolah-olah dia sahaja yang banyak berkorban untuk cintamu..

5- iri hati : mencemburui kelebihanmu

6- balasan : tidak ikhlas selama dalam perhubungan kerana mengharap ganjaran..

7- putar belit : lembut gigi dari lidah.. lain yang dikata lain pula yang dilaksanakan..

8- tidak tepati janji : bukan sekadar janji.. malah masa juga sering xditepati..

9- berat tulang : pemalas, tidur siang n pd malam hari suka berseronok..

10- tak sanggup susah : bila senang kitalah segalanya, bila kita susah, dia entah kemana..

StRaWbEri dAn KeCaNtIkAn...

Strawberi tergolong dln keluarga Rosaceae,
umumnya estrak strawberi merupakan bahan yg plg popular utk merawat kecantikan..
bahkan, wanita Perancis juga gemar melulur badan mereka dgn strawberi yg dihancurkan ketika mandi..
hasilnya kulit menjadi segar bercahaya..
di abad ke-13, akar, daun, dan buah strawberi mulai popular digunakan utk pengubatan tradisional..
buah strawberi ini menyimpan banyak nutrient yg ternyata baik utk tubuh..
selain kaya dgn antioksidan,ia juga tinggi kandungan vitamin a, vitamin c, serat,potassium, n rendah kalori..
bahan aktif yg terkandung di dalamnya mampu menanggalkan sel kulit mati sehingga kulit
menjadi lembap, sihat dan cerah...
oleh sebab itulah khasiat strawberi sering dijadikan bahan campuran utama utk produk penjagaan wajah seperti facial...

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

cute photo..




2nd week in ipgm ksm..

bnothing to say..
but i feel better to be here...
ya..
without what i want i cant get..
so its better i think...
now,im getting closer to my frenz...
especially in my unit..

today, at recess time, we were called to our senior classes n we needed to introduce ourselves to them...
although my heartbeat got rise but i am intro myself with good confident..
hahhaahha
what a nerve side..hohoho

today, we didnt learn so much..
just one period in da moning with da ustaz..
n then rest at all time..
wasting time in computer lab...
hahahahah
thats is what i want..
hohoho

but
i got a problem now..
just now, i want to transfer songs into my usb..
but my usb was cramp..
n now i cant use that...
what a pity n big problem to me...

Sunday, July 19, 2009

knp?? knp?? knp??

bila aku nak happy??
knp hidup aku jarang happy???
sebab aku xbersyukur ke...

CULTIRAL NORMS.....

CULTURAL NORMS

Afghanistan
Afghans usually sit with legs crossed; however, pointing the soles of the feet towards someone else is considered impolite. During meals, Afghans generally sit on the floor around a mat on which food is served in a communal dish. Food is eaten with the fingers of the right hand or a piece of nan (unleavened bread). Any business discussions occur after refreshments. Guests do not bring gifts.

Albania
Albanians greet with a handshake. They often move their hands and heads when conversing. Visiting is considered a joyful event and unplanned visits are common.

Algeria
In Algeria, Arabic is the official language. Greetings are often cordial and genuine, usually a handshake and an embrace (between members of the same sex). Algerians frequently use hand gestures during conversations. It is considered impolite to point directly at someone. Men and women tend to socialize separately. During non-social visits, people generally spend little time on small talk and usually shift the conversation to the intended subject.

Argentina
When negotiating with business associates in Argentina, remember to be punctual for meetings, but expect most local businessmen to arrive five to 10 minutes late. The most popular topic of discussion is sports, particularly soccer. The national language is Spanish, but English is spoken and widely understood. A few words in Spanish are appreciated, but do not attempt Spanish at a business meeting unless you are fluent.

Australia
Australians generally don't like to talk business during leisure hours, and they avoid making class distinctions. For example, when riding alone in a taxi, it's considered polite to sit in the front seat with the driver. If an Australian invites you to afternoon tea, expect just that, a cup of tea. However, an invitation to tea usually will include dinner.

Austria
In Austria, it is impolite to begin eating before others are ready. Also, punctuality at business meetings is expected.

Bahrain
The official language is Arabic although English is widely used in business and banking circles. Handshakes are common and may last the length of the conversation. It is generally unacceptable for a man to greet a woman unless it is part of business protocol. Bahrainis often invite relatives, friends and foreigners to their home. Guest usually bring a gift to the host, such as sweets or flowers.

Bangladesh
When introduced to a man, it is customary to shake hands with him, while women may merely nod. A standard Hindu greeting is performed with the palms held in prayer. Most business people speak English. It's also considered polite to arrive strictly on time for both business and social engagements. Use the right hand for eating and don't forget that the "thumbs up" gesture is considered rude.

Belgium
When dining with business associates in Belgium, relax and enjoy yourself. Meals are an important social and cultural event. Most Belgians are thrifty and do not like waste; finishing one's food is expected.

Belize
Belizeans are informal and friendly when greeting one another. In formal situations, people address others by title but in informal settings they use first names. To hail a taxi or bus, people in Belize move the hand up and down before the vehicle passes. When visiting, most hosts will offer a refreshment. In those areas without refrigeration people might offer fresh coconut.

Bolivia
In Bolivia, scheduled events begin late since arriving on time is not expected. Bolivians maintain little personal space and tend to stand close during conversations. Bolivians often use their hands and facial expressions to communicate. Eye contact is considered essential and avoiding another's eyes shows lack of trust, suspicion or shyness. In restaurants, the tip is usually included but leaving a little extra (up to 5%) is considered polite.

Brazil
In Brazil, remember that the official language is Portuguese, not Spanish. Brazilians take soccer very seriously, and consider their national team to be the best in the world. In business negotiations, Brazilians enjoy conversation, jokes and getting to know each other. This is part of business negotiations, so you should take time to enjoy.

Bulgaria
In Bulgaria, 'yes' is indicated by shaking the head from side to side and 'no' is expressed with one or two nods. In conversation, Bulgarians generally do not use hand gestures but they often touch each other. During meals, napkins are placed on the table, not on the lap. Toasting is done at the beginning and throughout the meal. People maintain eye contact when clinking glasses during the toast.

Canada
Remember that Canada is, by law, a bilingual country. In fact, about 25 percent of the population considers French their first language. Nearly all government employees in Canada are bilingual.

Chile
When meeting someone for the first time in Chile, a firm handshake with direct eye contact is an appropriate greeting. However, close friends and relatives greet each other with an "abrazo"(ah-brat-zo), a combination hand shake and hug, often supplemented with a kiss for women.

China
When dealing with business associates in China, remember that the Chinese people place emphasis on trust and mutual connections. Always use a person's proper title and expect a slight bow or handshake upon an introduction. Maintain distance when speaking, avoid open displays of affection, and never appear loud or overly aggressive. Tropical or lightweight clothing is acceptable in the summer in northern China and for most of the year in southern China.

Colombia
During conversations, Colombians tend to be expressive with their hands and face. Goods manners while eating is important to Colombians. In a group, it is considered impolite to take anything to eat without offering it to others first. Eating on the streets is considered improper.

Costa Rica
In Costa Rica, socializing is an important part of a business relationship. While lunch is a time to discuss business, dinner is usually reserved for entertaining guests.

Czech Republic
Czechs do not visit one another unannounced. Czechs remove their shoes when entering a home and leave them in the entryway. Invited guests usually bring flowers for the host.

Denmark
Danish is the official language but English is widely spoken and understood. Although generally informal, Danes shake hands when introduced to strangers, at the end of business meetings and on formal occasions. When visiting, it is important to arrive on time. Danes also bring a small gift for the host such as flowers, wine or chocolate. In restaurants, a service charge is included in the bill, but some people leave a small tip.

Dominican Republic
To hail a taxi, one wags a finger or fingers (depending on the number of passengers) in the direction one is going. At a restaurant, one will clap to request the check. To Dominicans, privacy is unimportant. Hosts offer visitors something to drink and invite them to eat if mealtime is near. It is not considered impolite to refuse such an offer.

Ecuador
When negotiating in Ecuador, professional courtesy is extremely important. It is unwise to appear overly familiar with Ecuadorians. A handshake is acceptable when meeting for the first time. Women who are close friends may kiss each other in greeting, while men will embrace. Many visitors have trouble breathing when they first arrive in Ecuador due to the high altitude, therefore it is advisable to relax on your first day and acclimate yourself.

Egypt
In Egypt, English is widely spoken. The Egyptian work week is Saturday through Thursday, and Friday is a day of rest in the Muslim culture. Social engagements are usually held late in the day. Dinners may not be served until 10:30 p.m. or later.

El Salvador
Summer clothing is suitable all year round because of the warm climate. Business people often wear suits. A brief, firm handshake is the usual formal greeting. It is considered impolite to point directly at people. However, pointing to animals or objects is acceptable. To hail a taxi, one points at an angle to the street.

England
In general, the English are a reserved people. A handshake is the most common form of greeting among the English. Manners are important. When visiting, guests usually bring a gift such as chocolate or flowers. Sending a thank you note is also considered appropriate. The English eat continental style, with fork in the left hand and the knife in the right.

Fiji
In Fiji, it is customary to introduce yourself with a handshake, a smile and raised eyebrows. When socializing with business associates, a drink of kava may be offered as a sign of goodwill. Kava is made from the root of a plant in the pepper family. Refusal to drink may be seen as an insult.

Finland
In Finland, taking a sauna is a national pastime, an offer to join your host in the sauna represents an honor or a special occasion. At meals, the guest of honor is expected to offer a toast following the meal, so it is a good idea to save your wine until then. Use caution when driving: seatbelt and drunk driving laws are strictly enforced, and moose and reindeer are common roadway hazards.

France
The French are very proud of their culture, heritage and way of life. They expect visitors to have some knowledge and appreciation of the French culture. The French tend to dress fashionably. Professional attire tends to be formal. Table manners are considered important. One does not place the elbows on the table. Fruit is peeled with a knife and eaten with a fork. It is polite to bring a gift to the host such as chocolate or flowers. Foreign visitors should not bring wine as a gift unless certain of its high quality.

Germany
When doing business in Germany, remember that business people there respect order and discipline. Arrive on time for meetings and social events, and answer all correspondence and inquiries promptly. When telephoning, Germans generally avoid small talk, and proceed straight to the business at hand.

Greece
When dealing with business associates in Greece, you should give your business card to everyone you meet. When you want to say "hello," don't wave your palm "American style"; instead, raise your index finger with your palm closed.

Grenada
Grenadians are considered to be among the friendliest people in the Caribbean. They always offer guests a refreshment and it is considered impolite to refuse. Grenadians have a passion for the sport of cricket. Each town has a cricket team and boys begin playing at age ten.

Guatemala
In Guatemala it is considered polite to speak softly, and the use of titles is very important. Don't call out someone's name in public. Instead, make a short hissing sound to get someone's attention.

Haiti
When dealing with business associates in Haiti, remember that although punctuality is not strictly adhered to, an early arrival is considered rude. Generally, people shake hands in greeting. It is recommended you keep a supply of business cards on hand. These should be printed in both English and French, the Haitian native language. Casual warm weather clothing is accepted, but business meetings usually call for a conservative suit.

Honduras
In Honduras, individual needs are considered more important than schedules, so being late for appointments or social events is common. A handshake is an appropriate greeting for men and urban women. Hand and body language are important forms of communication. Visiting is common and often people visit unannounced. Hosts almost always offer guests refreshments; refusing is considered impolite.

Hong Kong
In doing business in Hong Kong, respect is the watchword. You must show respect to gain respect. Trustworthiness is a point of pride, so you may want to apologize when asking for a written contract, even though it is recognized as standard practice. Also, avoid the colors blue and white in your presentation materials, as these represent death and mourning.

Hungary
Adults greet each other with a firm handshake. When addressing someone, it is polite to use the person's professional title with his or her surname. When visiting, guests usually bring a gift of flowers or candy. Hands are kept on the table but not the elbows. Napkins are kept on the table throughout the meal.

Iceland
When doing business in Iceland, remember that it is considered bad form to discuss the weather. Expect natives of Iceland to greet each other using first names; visitors should use last names. Tipping is not allowed, since service charges are included on all bills. Appointments and punctuality are not emphasized in Iceland, because a strong tradition of "dropping in" prevails.

India
When invited to a meal in India, guests should offer a gift of flowers, candy or fruit to their host. At some social gatherings, guests are adorned with garlands of flowers. These should be removed and carried in the hand as an expression of humility. Indians are often too polite to say no to an invitation; if they cannot attend, they will more likely say "I'll try."

Indonesia
In Indonesia, never touch another person's head, for this is thought to be where the spirit resides. Although handshaking is becoming more accepted, avoid using your left hand to pass or receive anything, for it is considered unclean and will be taken as an insult. Negotiating is everything in Indonesia, never pressure or hurry, and be prepared to bargain. Punctuality is expected. Presenting your business card is essential to gaining respect and acknowledgement.

Ireland
The Irish always toast their visitors, and consider refusal to drink a bit of an insult. So if you must refuse, always say it's for health reasons. Make business appointments in advance, but keep in mind that the Irish are not very time conscious. In Ireland the official language is Gaelic, but it is never used in business. Avoid discussing religion or politics.

Israel
Hebrew is Israel's official language but English is widely used, especially in commerce. Israelis tend to be informal. They usually address each other by first name. Israelis love to visit friends and family and may even drop by unannounced. Handshakes are common. Additional contact depends on one's ethnic origin. In Israel, the work week is Sunday through Thursday. On Fridays, businesses operate until 2 p.m.

Italy
Meals in Italy are generally unhurried, and can last up to four hours. During the meal, it is impolite to put your hands in your lap. At the table, it is also impolite to stretch at the table, even if the meal is over.

Jamaica
English is the official language of Jamaica. Jamaicans are generally outgoing and like to have lively conversations. In casual situations, Jamaicans commonly use nicknames. To hail a taxi, one keeps the hand down and waves. Good table manners are considered an important social refinement. Cricket and soccer are very popular in Jamaica.

Japan
In business dealings in Japan, a well-groomed, conservative look for men and women is advisable. Avoid trendy hairstyles, and heavy makeup and jewelry. Always treat a business card carefully, never bend it or write on it, as this will be considered a direct insult. If your host is quiet, do not be concerned; silence is an ordinary part of conversation. in Japan, a smile can mean that a person is uncomfortable or sad. People have observed that Japanese might smile on sad occasions, such as a funeral, and find this confusing. To the Japanese, it is perfectly acceptable. To an American, this is strange.

Kenya
In Kenya, it is customary to shake hands when first meeting people and when taking your leave. After English, Swahili is the most common language. When invited to someone's home, do not bring flowers, as they are usually used to express condolences.

Kuwait
When dining with business associates in Kuwait, be sure to bring your appetite. To show proper appreciation of a meal, you must eat mightily.

Lithuania
Lithuanians are often reserved and sincere. A handshake is almost always used with professional contacts. It is impolite to talk with hands in the pockets. Lithuanians are proud of their heritage but not of the Soviet period. Drinking vodka (for men only) is common during most social visits. Guests are expected to be punctual.

Luxembourg
In addition to the native language, Luxembourgish, French and German have official status. Men wear suits to work and women wear dresses more than pants. Dinner guests often bring a gift of chocolate or flowers for the host. A cocktail is usually served before dinner. Luxembourg enjoys the highest standard of living in the world.

Malaysia
When conducting business in Malaysia, never point or summon another person with your index finger. Also, avoid displaying the sole of your shoe, or using your foot to gesture or move objects. Always use your right hand for greeting others, taking or passing food, or presenting business cards or gifts as use of the left hand is offensive. Remember that the work week in some Malaysian states runs from Saturday through Wednesday, with businesses remaining closed on Thursday and Friday in observance of the Muslim day of worship.

Mauritius
The Mauritian people are family oriented and religious. English is the official language. It is not used much in conversations but used almost exclusively in business and government. It is not proper to receive gifts with the left hand. One uses the right hand or both hands. Guests are not expected to bring gifts except for a formal lunch or dinner.

Mexico
In Mexico, remember that the main meal of the day is served between 1 and 4 p.m. If you are bringing flowers to your host, avoid the color purple as it is commonly seen at funerals. When making purchases, bargaining is natural and expected.

Morocco
The official language is Arabic although French is widely used in business, government and higher education. Moroccan culture is rooted in Islam. Moroccans pass items with the right hand or both hands but never the left hand. Moroccans are gracious and warm hosts. Social visits can last for hours. It is considered impolite to refuse refreshments offered by the host. Mint tea is often offered to friends and business associates for short visits.

Nepal
The Nepalese are religious, family oriented and modest. It is considered rude to touch another person's head or shoulders. Men do not touch women in public. If food or flowers are touched at a bazaar they are considered impure. People usually eat with the hands or a spoon. Food is not shared from the same plate or utensils.

The Netherlands
Don't refer to The Netherlands as "Holland," since this refers to only two of the country's twelve provinces. When a Dutch associate circles his finger around his ear, he isn't saying that you are crazy, but rather, that you have a phone call.

New Zealand
When doing business in New Zealand, prior business appointments are advisable, and visitors should try to be a bit early. Both English and Maori are the official languages in New Zealand, but the Maori language is used primarily for Maori religious ceremonies or other special occasions.

Nicaragua
Because of the warm climate, Nicaraguans offer guests a cool drink. Refusing a drink is considered a discourtesy. Hosts expect their guests to eat what is served. Guests are expected to praise the quality of the meal. Baseball is the national sport.

Nigeria
When in Nigeria, do not be surprised if your host sits or stands very close by you. Personal space between members of the same sex is much closer than in North America. Although English is the official language, there are 250 ethnic groups in Nigeria, and each has its own distinct language.

Northern Ireland
In Northern Ireland, business people tend to dress conservatively. English is the official language but Gaelic is becoming more popular. Although Northern Ireland is part of the UK, its people are Irish and not English. However, they also consider themselves British. It is customary for dinner guests to bring a small gift for the hostess. People often socialize for a while before dinner is served. It is inappropriate to discuss religion or politics.

North Korea
In North Korea, greetings and introductions are rather formal. Handshakes are common among men but a bow is most common. Sitting in a relaxed manner is considered an insult. Exposing the soles of one's feet is improper. People give and receive gifts with both hands. Eating with one's fingers is considered impolite, but slurping soup and noodles is accepted.

Norway
When meeting with business associates in Norway, be advised that Norwegians are very direct in business and do not waste time on a lot of pleasantries. Also punctuality is very important.

Pakistan
When in Pakistan, always accept invitations to tea or dinner, to refuse is quite rude. Be discreet about taking photographs, especially of native women and religious sites. Remove your shoes before entering a temple or mosque, and don't be offended if you attract attention as open staring is not considered rude.

Panama
Most citizens are well-informed on topics relating to national and international political issues. Spanish is the official language, but many speak English as well. Panamanians enjoy visiting with others in their home. When invited to dinner, the guest is not expected to bring a gift. Politeness is important and chivalry is common. Eye contact is important during conversations.

Paraguay
Paraguayans enjoy visiting one another. Guests are not expected to be punctual. It is common for guests to bring a gift of beer or wine. Not finishing one's meal is considered impolite to the host. In restaurants, service is included in the bill and a tip is not expected. Paraguayans are soft-spoken people; they do not shout to get another's attention. Soccer is a popular spectator sport and volleyball is the most common participation sport.

Peru
Peruvians are strong willed and nationalistic. Men and women shake hands when meeting and parting. While punctuality is not very important for Peruvians, international visitors are expected to be on time. Guests are not expected to bring gifts, however dinner guests often bring fruit or wine for the host. It is polite to show concern for the health of the host's family. The average Peruvian workweek is 48 hours, one of the longest in the world.

Philippines
In the Philippines, don't use a loud voice, and any kind of criticism should be expressed with the utmost tact. When giving gifts, don't be surprised if the package is not opened in front of you; it is more common to wait until after the gift-giver leaves.

Poland
When dealing with business associates in Poland, don't use a person's first name until he or she does. The Polish consider using first names a sign of friendship, and often celebrate this event over a drink. If you are a woman, don't be surprised if the men kiss your hand each time you meet. Coffee is in very short supply, so unless it is served, don't ask for it. When a Pole flicks his finger against his neck, he is inviting you to join him for a drink of vodka.

Portugal
When doing business in Portugal, know that it is customary for men to greet each other with the "abra├žo" (ah-bra-so), an enthusiastic hugging and mutual slapping of backs. You should avoid making appointments or phone calls betwen noon and 3 p.m., when most businesses close down. If you are invited to dinner, do not feel that you have to bring a gift, but you can return the favor later by taking your hosts to a local restaurant.

Puerto Rico
Spanish and English are the official languages of Puerto Rico. Dinner guests are not expected to bring a gift; however a host may appreciate a gift of flowers, fruit or candy. Baseball is the most popular sport.

Romania
In Romania, you should always shake hands when being introduced to a man, but be aware that the custom of kissing a woman's hand still exists. Romania is a very punctual society, so be on time for both personal and professional engagements. The English, German and French languages are equally used in business transactions.

Russia
When meeting, Russians shake hands firmly. Pointing with the index finger is considered impolite but it is frequently done. Russians enjoy giving and receiving gifts. Although not expected, guests usually bring the host a gift of flowers, food or vodka. If friends open a bottle of vodka, they usually drink until the bottle is empty. Russians prefer to have social interaction before discussing business. Doing business over the telephone without meeting the prospective client or partner is ineffective.

Samoa
In Samoa, formal greetings are usually given before any business meeting begins. It is customary to remove one's shoes before entering a home and even though fingers are used when eating in a Samoan home, visitors will usually be provided with utensils.

Saudi Arabia
When visiting a business colleague in Saudi Arabia, do not be startled if he holds your hand while you walk. This is simply a sign of friendship. Also, when you arrive for an appointment, remember that other business people may be present and that several meetings may be happening simultaneously.

Scotland
When in Scotland, remember to refer to the people as "Scots"or "Scotsmen." The word "Scotch" refers only to a drink. Never call a kilt a skirt, and avoid making jokes about this formal Scottish attire, which is often worn by both men and women. The Scots tend to be reserved people; handshakes are generally light, and hugging is not common, even among close friends.

Singapore
Singapore is a city-state; there are no rural areas and no other cities. The official languages are Malay, Chinese, Tamil and English. Singaporeans have a strong work ethic. It is considered impolite for the bottom of the foot to point to someone. Touching another person's head is also impolite. Laws regarding littering, jay walking or drug enforcement are strictly enforced. It is wise for foreigners to carry prescriptions for all medications to avoid trouble with the authorities.

Slovakia
Shaking hands is the most common form of greeting. Chewing gum is not acceptable during social interaction. An invited guest should bring a gift of flowers to the host. Visitors should not overly admire anything in the home since the item might be given to them, even if it is a family heirloom. Restaurants do not provide water unless requested. Most businesses are closed on Sundays.

Slovenia
Slovenes are proud of their country and heritage. In conversation, people maintain a distance from each other. Slovenes do not admire people who are late, untruthful, rude or xenophobic. Good manners are important. It is considerate for invited guests to bring a small gift to the host. A toast of wine usually precedes the meal. English is spoken in many tourist areas.

South Africa
When doing business in South Africa, remember that visiting is an important activity. It is best to arrange visits in advance, but unannounced visits among good friends are common. Be aware that in some ethnic groups it is not polite to gesture with the left hand. Tipping in restaurants is discretionary.

South Korea
Korean is the official language. English is taught in school and many people have a good understanding of it. Giving gifts as a means of obtaining favors is common especially in the workplace. A bow followed by a handshake is the usual greeting between men. Eye contact is important while conversing.

Spain
When dealing with business associates in Spain, try to make business appointments between 10 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. Most business people take care of appointments in the morning and do paperwork in the afternoon. Remember that everything from businesses to schools closes from 1 to 4 p.m. for the siesta. Never try to discuss business at the first meeting. Spaniards regard the impersonal efficiency often associated with Americans as very unpleasant. They place great value on knowing people as individuals, so be prepared to receive questions about your background, education and interests.

Sri Lanka
Sri Lanka, originally called Ceylon, has a strong British influence. English greetings are suitable and English is still commonly spoken. Sri Lankans are very hospitable and courteous. It is common practice for them to offer tea at the beginning of a meeting. Don't be confused when negotiating with Sri Lankans, since to them, a nod of the head means no, and shaking it means yes.

Sweden
In Sweden, when talking to an older person, you should refer to him or her in the third person, and be aware that compliments to people whom you have just met are regarded as insincere. Note that Swedes answer the phone by giving either their last name or phone number. Since June, July and August are popular vacation months, you should avoid planning business meetings during that time.

Switzerland
Switzerland has four official languages: German, French, Italian and Romansch. The Swiss place high value on cleanliness and orderliness. Visits are planned in advance. Dinner guests usually bring a gift of chocolates, flowers or wine. General business hours are from 8:00 a.m. to noon and from 2:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m., Monday through Friday. Banks close at 4:00 p.m.

Tahiti
When visiting Tahiti on business, remember that Tahitians put a high value on personal relations. The lifestyle in Tahiti is relaxed and time is more flexible than in many industrialized countries.

Taiwan
In Taiwan, offer your business card to all present at a meeting. When dining out, it's polite to offer to pay, but expect the offer to be declined. The Western habit of "going Dutch" is considered ungracious.

Thailand
In Thailand, the traditional greeting is a bow for men and a curtsy for women. It is customary to remove one's shoes when entering a private home. Retail shops are open seven days a week and bargaining is expected. Shorts are not appropriate dress in public places. The Thai deeply respect the King and Queen. It is illegal to write or say anything offensive about them.

Tunisia
Tunisians usually have tea and conversations before discussing business. Tunisia has a shortened work week for July and August when most business operate Monday through Saturday 7:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. Invited guests may bring a gift of fruit or chocolate but never alcohol.

Turkey
In Turkey, when addressing a man, always use his last name followed by "bey," and with a women, use her last name followed by "hanim." If someone raises his chin, shuts his eyes, and tilts his head back, he's not taking a nap, this is the Turkish gesture for saying "no." Don't plan a business trip to Turkey during June, July or August, since most business people vacation during these months.

Ukraine
Ukrainians welcome both expected and unexpected guests. However, visits should be arranged in advance. A gift of flowers or candy is appropriate for the host. Guests should remove footwear before entering a private home.

United Arab Emirates
When visiting your host in the United Arab Emirates, remember that gift giving is appreciated but not expected. Do avoid giving wine or other alcohol as a gift.

Uruguay
When in Uruguay, it is customary to greet strangers when passing on city streets. However, rural residents tend to be quite friendly to strangers. When invited to an associate's home for dinner, be sure to send chocolate or flowers beforehand, and avoid bringing up the subject of politics with your host.

Venezuela
A firm handshake is a common greeting among acquaintances and strangers. Venezuelans use their hands to communicate or emphasize a point. It is polite to maintain eye contact throughout a conversation. When a visitor arrives at a home or business, a small cup of strong thick coffee is usually offered. Banking hours are usually 8:30 to 11:30 a.m. and 2:00 to 4:30 p.m. Bottled water is safest to drink.

Vietnam
When doing business in Vietnam, it is helpful to know that the work week is six days, from Monday to Saturday.

Wales
The Welsh do not consider themselves English but some think of themselves as British. A firm handshake is a common greeting among strangers and acquaintances. Whispering is considered impolite. Pointing and touching others should be avoided. Rugby is the national sport. Banks are open from 9:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. Stores are closed on Sundays.

Zambia
In Zambia, handshaking is common practice, and you should always use a person's professional name if known. Be sure to make prior appointments, but don't be surprised if the engagement is broken without advance notice. You should avoid discussing such sensitive topics as local politics or economics, but most Zambians do like to discuss international politics.

Zimbabwe
English is the official language and is spoken by most educated people and in urban areas. Direct eye contact, especially in rural areas, is considered rude. Refusing offers of food or refreshments is not polite. Banks close at 2:00 p.m. on most days and at noon on Wednesday.


An old Chinese proverb says...
"You get sick by what you put in your mouth, but you can be hurt by what comes out of your mouth."

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"Every culture enjoys some form of humor. But, humor has difficulty crossing cultural boundaries because what is humorous in one country is often not humorous in another."

Saturday, July 18, 2009

minggu pengurusan di ipgm ksm

xske xske xske...
everyone talking in malay..
such a weird situation for me..
can u imagine..
after 24 hours speaking everyday,
now 24 hours speaking malay...
feeling such an alien although in my own place..

i dont know n still finding,
where is the time that i would enjoy myself there 100%...
its hard for me to accept this condition..
doing something that i dont want to do..
without any interest...
life is very difficult to me here...
n now...
with my course that i should take..
i have to learn physic, chemistry n biology again..
what a damn...
how can i convert my thinking from english to science in a short time...
like a cramp maybe...
very painful n stressful...
aahhhh....
i need advice...
some words that can comfort me...
but no one would care about me...
i want or i wont, i still have to be here...
if there is nothing, maybe i'll b here for 5 n half year...
what a long time...
how can i wlak through that time...
feeling that its very tough for me...

this week...
the day of the starter...
very bad i think...
everything just shock me out...
n feeling like a student in primaty school..
i hate dat feeling...
time...
everybody cant follow it properly..
i dont know what we do...
but there was no rest for us..
slept at 3.00 a.m...
n woke up at 4.15...
juz one hour slept...
headache...
feeling like the was star walking around my mind...
hahahahaha
sound funny but that is the truth..

everyone cant wait for the holiday on thursday to monday...
everybody rushed home after majlis perasmian penutup...
what a tired week...
with some flu...
painful leg...
hard walking...
i hate that...

im wondering...

when will i stop complaining about diz place?????

maybe because i go there with no interest n being push by my family..
i hope i can stand it..
n start to accept this fate slowly...
although its hard for me....

Wednesday, July 01, 2009

sedihnya kurasakan....















assalamualaikum...everyone... who know me..n have free time to view n read my
blog..
thanks lots... here..today... tonight...i wanna tell u all about my
feelings..
im very sad.. cannot express by
words..
but i try to express in this
post..
i love my
frenz..
my lecturer...my classmate..my roommate... i miss u all...i dont know what to
say
when i come back this
evening
everyone prepare something taht i
never expected from u all..
the food.. drink... it is all
served..
i'm very
shocked..
they even give gifts to
me..
cadbury... a card.. i never expected
that..
terharu... sedihnya.. tomorrow.. i will leave cfsiium niali
campus....
leave my interest,my soul, my
frenz,alll.........
my bed... alll........ i'll miss
it.....
to my roommate: thanks lots 4 taht
dinner..
i love u all... to my GPDP members: miss u
all..
to my classmate: hope u all will b
together until u get degree..
wishing goodluck to all of
u..
to my lecturer: if u read this
post,pray for me..
pray for my
future..
madam szamiss hanitaand all...... i miss u all.. i love your
teaching..
thanks lots... p/s: be hepy
always..
pray for me..i dont if i can cope with my new
environment...

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